Be good parents, not competent ones

Be good parents, not competent ones

If you are a parent, then congratulations, you are probably seeing a miracle unfold before you i.e., your child are growing up and you see the genetics playing its games through them. But, it is quite common for parents to feel the need to be destructive once in a while, since you spend a lot of time with your children and be immersed in their activities with them. They are bundle of joy which needs constant attention. But that this is your child and you will reap what you show. Therefore, with the vacations coming up, you are more likely to plan to send your kids to camp. But, in camps, kids might feel social exclusion or might learn to stay away from the parents mainly the type of parents who were authoritarians.

Psychologically, Ages 1 to 5 is crucial in the development of the kid’s brain when they imprint memories. Studies have shown that if the child is more likely to be a psychopath or sociopath when they are reared without a maternal figure in their life. Therefore, this vacation make it a point to spend some quality time with your chid instead of sending them to some kind of camps. You can make use of the below mentioned activities to ensure that you are not spoiling your child and are actually facilitating them to be irresponsible

Sign them up for classes during the vacation

There are places which act similar to a school. They will be organising different quality events for your children to attend and gain the skills. It should be understand that you can find other art classes for kids in Singapore and other classes depending on your child’s interest. You just need to give them a bit more attention to help materialise their dreams. If you are a working parent, this will be a welcome relief at the same time you will be able to spend some quality time with your children.

Make memories

Kids do not have a good retrieval process thereby they will not be able to remember a certain great day out. Therefore, it is important to make sure that you have made memories and souvenirs. You should also make it a point to take family photos and family vacations together. Later, when your child is older these will even serve as pillars that will help his get his standing in the society. The love, care and disciplining should be done by both parents and it will do magic to the growth and development of the children.

Apart from the above mentioned there are several other books on child psychology and parenting from which will help you with your children and make sure that they are in the right track of life. If you are unsure, there are forums and blogs which are run by parents for parents of any kind (single parent and others).